In Sickness and In Health

A film by Pilar Prassas, Edited by Peter Heacock

2007 | 56 minutes | Color | DVD | Order No. 09952

SYNOPSIS

A deeply affecting film by newcomer Pilar Prassas and edited by Peter Heacock, In Sickness and In Health cuts through abstract ideologies, politics, and legalities to the human heart of the same-sex marriage debate in this amazing story of love, hope, and courage.

In 2002, filmmaker Pilar Prassas began following seven couples in their effort to legalize same-sex marriage in the state of New Jersey. Two years into filming, however, plaintiff Marilyn Maneely, mother of five, was diagnosed with the incurable, terminal disease Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis, also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease. On the day Marilyn passed away, her life partner of 14 years, Diane Marini, was not even allowed to sign her death certificate.

In traditional marriage vows, “‘til death do us part” is the phrase that follows “in sickness and in health,” but to many gay and lesbian Americans, saying these words and enjoying their subsequent rights is not an option. With a tender touch, Prassas delicately balances tragedy and triumph in this film about the civil rights issue of our time—the fight to marry, and care for, the ones we love, in sickness and in health.

PRESS

“ *** ½. Highly recommended…. This moving film puts a human face on an important issue.”

Video Librarian

“A moving narrative that engages the viewer on a deeper level of understanding of what the fight is all about.”

Deborah Edel Founder, Lesbian Herstory Archives

“May the State declare who can be your soul mate in life—and in death? Puts human faces on the abstract academic debate about the social taxonomy of relationships. Its length, its sensitivity, and its clarity make it perfect for students learning about social and legal issues.”

Jillian T. Weiss, J.D., Ph.D. Assoc. Professor & Convener of Law & Society Major, Ramapo College

SCREENING HIGHLIGHTS AND AWARDS

  • Philadelphia International Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, Jury Award for Best Documentary & Festival Favorite
  • Southwest Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, Audience Award Best Documentary
  • Reel Affirmations - DC Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, Best Documentary
  • Santa Fe Film Festival
  • Miami Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
  • New Fest: The New York LGBT Film Festival
  • Outfest: The Los Angeles Gay & Lesbian Film Festival
  • Through Women’s Eyes Film Festival
  • Boston Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
  • The Berkshire Women for Women Worldwide
  • Tampa International Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
  • Austin Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, TX
  • Reel Identities LGBT FF, New Orleans
  • Rochester Lesbian & Gay Film Festival
  • SF Women's Film Festival
  • Scribe Video Center, PA
  • International Black Women's Film Festival

ABOUT FILMMAKER(S)

Pilar Prassas

Prassas is a storyteller at heart. With her Broadcast Journalism degree from Boston University, Prassas enjoys bringing other people's stories to life. The documentary IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH was a gift that Prassas was given by her main character --the late Marilyn Maneely. Shooting inside the window of Maneely's life has allowed Prassas to attach a human face to a social and political issue. Her goal with her first feature-length film is to create visual opportunity for people to look outside their own eyes, minds and lives. The building blocks for her career came from her experience as a scriptwriter for the Sydney 2000 Olympic Games, a producer for WEEI Sports Talk Radio, a feature writer for Sports Club Magazine and her current position at Reuters, the World's News Leader. (07/12)

Peter Heacock

Heacock studied film production at New York University's Tisch School of the Arts where he graduated in 2001 as a University Honors Scholar. While studying under renowned documentary filmmaker George Stoney, Peter directed and shot The Glen of the Downs, an award-winning film about the first international environmental protest in Ireland. Immediately after graduating from NYU, Peter returned to Philadelphia to work as an experimental filmmaker in galleries around the city.

He is now running First Capital Pictures, an advertising organization that focuses on innovative campaigns for the web. He has also delved into the world of Vine and has a very large following. He is interested in the grey area between traditional advertising and social media. (8/14)

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